I got an ask in my inbox from someone new and I thought it might make a good post. Hope someone finds this helpful!
I was just wondering is it normal the way I feel about tickling is makes me feel some way inside I can’t quite grasp it it feels so good. Is it normal that it turns me on or is it weird it turns me on more than anything . Sorry if this is weird
Hey no worries! So it’s a common question for younger people to always worry about being normal, especially when it comes to sexuality. As you get more experience, I think most people start to realize that there isn’t really such a thing as normal - everyone has their own preferences and quirks, and this is something to be celebrated! It makes life interesting.
From my point of view, liking tickling is normal! Being turned on by tickling is normal! It’s been that way my whole life! And over time I’ve surrounded myself with people who also feel that way or are at least curious about it and want to find out more. So yes! I’ve successfully normalized it in my life 😊. Is it a common kink or fetish? Maybe not common but definitely not unheard of! It’s also a fairly tame kink to introduce to new partners. Keep it playful and fun and don’t do it without consent. Some people really don’t like it, but a lot of people find it enjoyable! Focus on finding those people and developing a strong connection so that they feel comfortable playing with you. Also check out my Advice Masterpost for other thoughts on how to get started!